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24 ELDERLY WORDS OF WISDOM TO A MAN

24 Elders words of

wisdom

My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

* My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

* My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning... that was our office.

* My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the
house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

* My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even
when all has been spent.

* My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

* My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be
single again.

* My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our
large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so
embrace your woman closely.

* My son, under the cocoa where i meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but
remember, the closest thing we did there was to embrace each other.

* My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it
on that woman that stood by you all along.

* My son, when I threw
little stones or whistled at
the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.

* My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could
be something you’ve stopped doing too.

* My son, your mother rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning
should not enjoy your riches.

* My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has
she ever compared you to any man?

* My son, there is this thing you people call
feminism. well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to
start paying the other part.

* My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

* My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

* My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this,
so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.

* My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call
tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like the women of nowadays.

* My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.

* My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

* My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

* My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything,
everyday.

* My son, if I had taken
my time to tell you all these and your marriage did not last like that of your mother and I, then you didnt heed to my advice.

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